A theological report by Paul Widdershoven

From the Beginning

What Jesus Revealed About Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage

A theological report for believers who are tired of asking only, "Am I allowed?" and are ready to see what Jesus returned to when He spoke of marriage, hardness of heart, union, and the beginning.

From the Beginning publishes reflections and reports examining what Jesus actually revealed about the questions that continue to shape our lives.

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The doorway

The Question Jesus Refused to Answer

The Pharisees came to Jesus asking what was lawful. Jesus answered by returning them to what was true from the beginning.

This report follows that movement: away from permission-seeking and toward the mystery marriage was created to reveal. It asks whether Jesus gave humanity a stricter rule, or revealed a reality that law could never create.

What this report does

It Reframes the Ground of the Question

Scripture in Context

Examines Matthew 19, Genesis, Deuteronomy, the Gospels, and Paul with theological care.

Hard Realities Named

Explores divorce, remarriage, adultery, abandonment, and abuse without reducing wounded lives to abstractions.

Beyond Permission

Refuses to turn Jesus' words into a simple permission chart, and instead asks who the reader is becoming.

For you

For the Exhausted Believer

This report is for those who have been wounded by accusation, trapped in fear, confused by conflicting teaching, or left wondering whether divorce or remarriage has placed them outside God's pleasure.

  • You have been told you are "living in adultery" and need to hear something other than accusation.
  • You have stayed in destruction because you feared God would punish you for leaving.
  • You are exhausted by the permission-seeking framework and suspect Jesus meant something more.

Inside the report

What You Receive

12 Chapters

A complete introductory theological report, not a loose article or devotional fragment.

About 12,000 Words

Long enough to carry the argument, short enough to read carefully without being overwhelmed.

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Not this

What This Report Is Not

  • Not a checklist of "biblical grounds" for divorce.
  • Not a flowchart for whether you can remarry.
  • Not a permission slip for a decision already made.
  • Not legal, medical, mental-health, or individualized pastoral advice.

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Author

By Paul Widdershoven

Paul Widdershoven

Written as an introductory theological report, From the Beginning invites the reader to see beyond law, accusation, and permission into the reality Jesus revealed when He returned His hearers to the beginning.

Paul writes for real people carrying real questions, with a steady concern that Scripture not be used to trap wounded people in fear, but to reveal the larger reality of union, mercy, and life in Christ.

Common questions

FAQ

Is this legal or counseling advice?

No. It is spiritual and scriptural reflection, not legal, medical, mental-health, or individualized pastoral advice.

Does this tell me whether I can divorce or remarry?

It does not offer a simple permission chart. It examines the ground from which those questions are being asked.

What if I am in danger?

If you are in immediate danger, seek emergency help or a qualified domestic-violence service in your location. No theological argument should be used to trap a person in danger.

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